verse 1

James 4:1 “What is the source of quarrels and conflicts among you?  Is not the source your pleasures that wage war in your members?”

There is a reason that conflicts happen.  The source is a list of thoughts that are accepted as personal desires.  This list of possible desires is almost endless.

Everyone decides which thoughts they will cast off and which they will pursue.  How will you attain what you have agreed to do, if someone or something is getting in the way.

The arguing and fighting for what you want, is what happens at the end of the process.